Talking To Your Baby
Talking to your baby, even though they can't understand much of what you say, is essential for their development. Even newborns, who can't understand anything you say, should be involved in conversations as this is how babies learn about communication. Babies are sociable creatures, and they want to be involved in your conversation. They are drawn to the sound of their parents' voice, and will look across the room at you when you speak. Talking to your baby, and listening to them when they babble back (see our article on Listening to Your Baby) is an enjoyable experience for your baby, who will love hearing you speak to them.
Having a Conversation
Talk to your baby throughout the day, explaining what you are doing. When you give them milk say 'are you hungry? would you like some milk?', and then afterwards say 'was that milk good?'. Sit your baby down facing you and have a 'conversation' with her. It doesn't matter if she doesn't always respond, she'll love having you talk to her and will be fascinated by every word you say, even though she can't understand you yet! If you're going to the supermarket say 'we're going to the shops now to buy some food', or if you're visiting relatives say 'we're going in the car now to go and visit granny, you love going to granny's house, you'll see Buster the dog!'. Also explain what you are doing when you get them changed, put them in the bath, wash their bottles, make their lunch etc. Make talking to your baby a habit. Your baby will love being included and having you explain things to them, and will move their arms and legs in response to you. Later they will start to verbally respond by babbling, cooing and gurgling. Gradually they will learn what your words mean through word association.
Talking in Your and Their Language
You can also babble back to your baby in their language. They'll be delighted at the noises you can make, and you can help them develop their vowel sounds by cooing 'ba-ba', 'ga-ga' 'da-da' and 'ma-ma' noises. Babies learn by imitation so they will love attempting to say these sounds back to you!
Point out objects to your baby, saying the name for them as you do so, such as 'teddy', 'ball', 'jumper' etc. When your baby points to something and tries to say a word, act delighted! Clap your hands, and say 'well done!', even if it baby babble. This is your baby's first attempts to put words to objects.
